Ellen Diana is a psychologist, author of the Lucky
Dreamer Tip Series, and co-author of the Charge
up Your Life series of self-help books. She has
30 years’ experience working with children, adults, couples, and families in
schools and in private practice in Scottsdale ,
Arizona . Helping women to evolve
into their best selves through personal growth and self-awareness is a passion
of hers. Ellen raised three successful children as a single parent and so has
special interests in mentoring other women in transition and helping parents to
raise resilient children. Contact Ellen at drdiana@ellendiana.com or through her website www.ellendiana.com
Wednesday, January 16, 2013
The Benefits of Volunteering
People who volunteer are typically unanimous in
touting the benefits. But volunteers are unpaid, contribute many hours of
potentially free time to the organization, and sometimes need to provide their
own supplies at personal cost. So what is the benefit?
All behavior is goal-driven. Everything we do has a
payoff for us so even the most altruistic person receives a benefit for their
efforts. Here are a few reasons why volunteering benefits the individual as
much as it does the organization.
First, volunteering bolsters self-worth which is an
important component of healthy self-esteem. When an individual has high
self-worth they believe that everything they think, feel, and do matters and
has a ripple effect in the world. They understand that they have a very unique contribution
to make, one that no one else can accomplish in exactly the same way. Volunteering reinforces this belief in self
and the importance of every contribution.
Second, volunteering improves our relationships
because it fosters compassion. Volunteering often places us in different
situations, where we interact with different individuals, than we typically do.
This allows us to discover that while people are very unique, they have much in
common. Volunteering exposes us to the
diversity in the world which, in turn, builds respect for differences and
improves our ability to relate to others.
Third, volunteering increases positive thinking
because it promotes interconnectedness and interdependence. Negativity,
despair, and depression build when we detach from social contact and focus too
much on ourselves. Volunteering brings us out into the community where we
direct our energies on improving humanity as a whole. We recognize that our
small part matters and has an effect which radiates out into society.
These are only a few reasons why volunteering has such
a positive impact on the individual. Try it yourself! Select an organization
which interests you and explore opportunities to volunteer. You’ll see your
life change for the better.
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